Why Do I Wish I Was a Kid Again

Old 01-14-2008, 01:50 PM #1

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Time is Moving Too Fast -- I wish I were a Child Again


Lately, I have these feelings that fourth dimension has passed me by. I call back existence 10 years old and thinking that I have enough of fourth dimension to achieve my goals. Well, now I'm 32 and I have achieved nil and I'k as well erstwhile to do anything now.

I wish I was 10 again. Happy all the ones I honey notwithstanding alive and around. No worries well-nigh war, law-breaking, work, decease, relationships merely fun with my toys watching TV. It sucks being 32! I absolutely hate it!


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Old 01-xiv-2008, 06:07 PM #2

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Man, I wish I was 32 again!!!!!!!!!!!! I tin only say this..."you're equally young right now every bit you're "ever" going to be".... It is never also late to try something new, to notice something or someone to make you happy. It is simply besides tardily if y'all give upwards trying.....
I know life can actually become you downward sometimes.....and can be a struggle, just there is still a lot of good out at that place.....I hope things wait up for yous...keep posting....

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Old 01-fifteen-2008, 06:54 AM #3

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CSense! I finished my Bachelor'south Degree when I was 32! My Master'south when I was 34! My mental wellness even after that! I am 44 and I nonetheless have plans! I plan on beingness very active into my 90'south (I hope I alive that long in good health. I'll be making the plans anyhow).


Old 01-15-2008, 12:01 PM #4

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I have been having the same sort of feelings. I am actually just 19 though. I am a junior in college, simply I just changed my major. I am also getting married in August. Since I changed my major, I volition be in college alot longer, which is actually getting to me. I have been battling stress and anxiety lately likewise. Sometimes I just wish I could just become back in time and be a kid again. Information technology really went by too fast. I want to go home to my parents' house and just exist their "petty child" again. I know I am still immature, only I am having those feelings also. I having been worrying most every petty thing lately and I wish I could be a kid and not have to worry about anything. Growing up is not easy to exercise. I am sort of glad that I am not the only person who feels this manner. You are non alone.


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Hey i can relate! I long to exist a child again. I'll exist 27 this year and i have also not achieved anything. The but affair to do is to think of your nowadays time because looking to your by will make you more depressed simply information technology'southward easier said than done.


Old 01-17-2008, 06:10 AM #6

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Lately, I have these feelings that time has passed me by. I recollect being x years old and thinking that I take enough of fourth dimension to achieve my goals. Well, now I'grand 32 and I have accomplished nothing and I'thou too old to exercise anything at present.

I wish I was 10 once more. Happy all the ones I love still alive and around. No worries about state of war, criminal offense, work, death, relationships just fun with my toys watching TV. It sucks being 32! I admittedly hate it!

CSense, In that location is a fourth dimension in everyone's life where they feel as you practise virtually time passing and what goals were reached (or not). I'll exist 40 this year merely people take me for 28, and although I'd never want to go back to my hellish childhood, I don't call back it'due south too late for you or me. Your depression will tell yous that though, sometimes I look at my life compared to others I know and think wow, I haven't achieved a matter. Living with low isn't easy, go easy on yourself. What was it that you wanted "to do" ??


Old 01-17-2008, 06:40 PM #vii

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Lately, I accept these feelings that time has passed me by. I recall being 10 years former and thinking that I have enough of time to achieve my goals. Well, at present I'k 32 and I have achieved nothing and I'm too old to practise anything now. I hate it!

Sounds similar you are angry most something? And not just lack of time.

1 thing I have learned is not to define success by club's definition, or for that matter anyone's definition but my own.

You lot practise have plenty of time to reach your goals and you know what, if your goals have changed and then what! I am non addicted of motivational speakers or people who want me to go go go practise practice practice. Someone famous once said something about if your don't have goals your basically lost. Well I think that is a load of crap.

I think we learn how to set goals when nosotros are children, when we are immune to dream, and this child was into survival. My goal was to continue mom happy so I could exist happy. Forget almost dreams and goals. My shrink always asks me what my goals are. Every bit if I'm going to have a goal and really accept a plan on reaching information technology. Ha that seems impossible to me. My goal is to be content and live in the present moment. If I desire something I unremarkably get information technology but I don't have big dreams, but that's me. We are all unlike and I truly admire people who accept that go up and go which I practice not take but I accept that most myself.

So Csense thanks for listening all about me - how are you doing? Feeling any meliorate?

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Old 01-21-2008, 08:21 AM #8

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hi,

i know the feeling exactly! many times i also experience that i haven't achieved much until now (37 y.o). on the one manus, i believe that is generally my depression talking, and my twisted outlook on life...seeing generally the negative in things. rationally i know i've washed things and i've managed to accomplish some things that i should be proud of (masters degree; my own co-op; non really depending on anyone--except emotionally, and that's what we all need, as maslow said--a sense of belonging and a sense that nosotros and our opinions matter in this world)... ..but i'm not proud, and i don't care almost those things anymore. my feeling about them now is 'and so what? who really gives a damn? exercise these really assist me in easying my depression Now, this hell that's lasted for more than a decade?" no, they don't! ... i don't care about these past 'accomplishments.'

i've read somewhere that a happy person is one that has something to look forwards to in life...that has plans. only, how easy is it to brand plans when y'all tin't see the sunday in front of your eyes anymore; when everything is so darn grey all the time, when y'all have no motivation, when yous experience like yous're but passing through hither, and just going through the motions of life, because you just Have to??!!!!! considering you can't afford not to. and then, there is a person who'south only existing, non living. this is fifty-fifty worse when the person is sensitive, or ultra sensitive...and as y'all know, information technology's difficult to change certain aspects of one's personality. well, personality doesn't really change; behavior does. i don't know what to say anymore, except that i empathize.
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Hey Dakota Skye:

I have not "seen" you around lately. I am glad to see that you lot are back, if in fact you went away. I could take just missed y'all.

Been back and forth on the Depression Board.

Making plans, goals has been an consequence for me for a long fourth dimension but I accept come to realize I am not similar other people nor do I have to be. Like you said, when depression is hanging over your caput getting through the day is a phenomenon.

Glad to come across you lot.

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Old 01-21-2008, 07:46 PM #10

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hullo treelover,

nice to see you too! cheers for writing!
yes, i've been away for a few months...new job and all, but still struggling with the never-ending nightmare. half a twenty-four hour period proficient here and there, just overall, i don't know what to do anymore. completely can't see the forest for the trees anymore, y'all know?!! how the heck tin can it become that bad, even on meds?!!! need to detox! need to become these darn chemicals out of my body--i've been seriously thinking of that. actually tired of taking pills and more pills, and for the by 15 years or so...

anyhow, you're so correct almost getting through tomorrow--never listen making plans. i wouldn't know where or how to start them.

hope to 'run across' you here again soon,
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Hi Dakota. What makes a person happy? IMO it is feeling okay virtually yourself and your feelings. Feeling that everything is ironed out and in an okay identify. For some reason this is making me recollect about what has transpired with me over the concluding three months (I guess what made me think of it is that there is always more than journey to travel). Well, anyway, my husband ruptured a lumbar disc the showtime of October, ruptured it twice actually (later on it healed the showtime time!). We were housebound and together all the fourth dimension and I had to do a lot for him. We accept never been together then much in all the sixteen years that nosotros have been together. We got fifty-fifty closer and we removed some things that were standing in the way of this. I judge this is really the indicate of all of this, that there is ever luggage that tin be removed to brand things even ameliorate. Dakota, I haven't written like this since you "left" girl! So I guess the final bespeak hither is that baggage can interfere with our relationships, our functioning and our happiness....


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